My wife is working and so am I.She shoulders multiple role and it is not easy for her to work and take care of home and children.
My daughter is sick and we are in clinic.Packed.I had taken leave earlier and had brought my 6 year old boy to kindetgarten and 2 year old daughter for a walk. It is not easy being a parent.
I hope more fathers spend more time with children and spouse.We may have to give up some leisure time and friendship, but this is neccessary for long term family health.
Mixed medium toys
Experimenting with the children.We use corrugated boards and tied to plastic stands, and we have a 3 storey platform.
I was analysing as part of my person project family units.I strongly believe that when husbands and wives have a strong relationship,shared values and common goals have less conflicts.
Love is time.Do things together.When going through shared experiences, there is greater understanding support.
I was talking to a youth, and she said that after dinner, the dad will go to his room, the mum will watch korean movies online, and she will go to her room to watch anime online.
How much time are you spending with your husband or wife this week?
Relax..kinda like flying a kite. .pull…release…pull..release…
Reframing your Mind
My son excitedly showed me his drawing.”Nice or not? You want to show your friends?”He asked.
I love my son and many things about him.When I took a photo, he was excited and exclaim”Wow…exactly the same”.
We call a rock a rock.In some cases, we can reframe our mind see the picture.
A highly intelligent lecturer talked about a boy who was reared by wolves.According to experts, his mind could not learn new languages and certain new things.
I was shocked.I look at Nikki Tay of Steady Steps in Songapore, Reuven Feureinstein of Israel and wondered their reactions to these statements.
Garbage in garbage out.However,garbage can be recycled. Thus,I think back of the unemployed man for 4 years.6 months of handholding and he was able to secure a job.He has his difficulties,but we persevered on and he stayed on the job.
A hammer cannot screw a screw,and a plier cannot hammer in a nail. Thus,wrong tools and unsuitable processes.
Thus,let us reexamine before we say some things cannot be fixed.
A great reminder of the gift of children (Duranho father school in 2012)
Vocabulary For Family
This is a useful resource that I sometimes use.
Talk little about studies or work.:)