I was watching a show about human trafficking in China. Young kids and chicken are kidnapped from homes and schools, and sold to others. The fathers and mothers spend years searching for kids, which many are unable to find. 1 woman spend 20 years to find her son who was kidnapped at 6 years old. Her husband left her after searching for the son for 3 years. The police found him, but he was willing to see his mother but not willing to follow her.
I know of 1 father who divorced his wife, and wife got custody of the son. Parental alienation came into the picture, and he was not able to see the son during repeated visits. He is still fighting to see his son.
There are many circumstances in life when we are anchored onto memories and we love to see our children. When they are taken away, we refuse to accept it. When I was in reservist even for my high keys, I would miss my kids at night, and we try to talk daily.
When we look at our anchors in life, let us not shift focus and love our spouse. Sometimes, wives transfer the focus and love of husband to children, and with less time and effort in husband and wife, ultimately, the wives may neglect the husband.
Husbands, love your wives, and wives, love your husband. Spend time and share duties. Remember the WE time, to cuddle and love. When there is shared partnership and love, the family grow as whole and not lop sided. And when there is stronger love and collaboration, the kids will benefit too from the process, LONG TERM and BIG TIME.
I became a Christian after my National Service, about 23 years old. During my youth and army days, there were some incidents that affirms my belief that we are co-existing with the supernaturals and paranormals.
A relative was a medium, and I saw her possessed once. The demon was strong. I also did not know what to do. The police came, and civil defence came, but they are also not sure. In the end, we had to summon other mediums and fortunately, the live was preserved. We advised the relative to move out of the place, as she had many deities and there were concerns for her life.
I was in army, Charlie 10. During my BMT, I had a tiring day. I slept around 10.15pm at lights off. At 5.30am the next day, I woke up and brushed my teeth in the toilet. When I came back, the lights were on and everyone was talking excitedly. Apparently, in our group of 10 persons, I was the only one who slept through the whole episode. 9 woke up in the middle of the night, but do not know why. 2 had seen an apparition on the ceiling fan. 1 of the 2 then pretended to sleepwalk, and walked to another bed, and plonked to a friend who is awake but pretended to be asleep. The other male, who saw the apparatition, stated at it from 3am to slightly before 6am, and credited his safety to the Taoists talisman on his neck.
SOme of my army mates practiced lion dance or were familiar with the occults. We will hear one joke, whereby a chinese medium told the officer that he is sometimes possessed by the Dragon King’s 3rd son. The officer ignored him. The medium asked that if during live firing, if he get possessed and killed someone, whose fault is it? The officer transferred him to administrative duties.
The Chinese have a Hungry Ghost Festival in the Lunar 8th month. The Ghost gates were opened, and the ghosts will come to earth. Chinese will burn joss papers and have pink candles. On the floors, there will be white chalks.I cautioned my children not to step on these ashes and chalk marks, and during that month, we have less outdoors.
I have also read of people who become curious and experiment with witchcraft, after playing or watching Dungeons and Dragons, and Harry Potter. Occult will always be occult, regardless of how fun is necromanism and other black arts. Stay away from all forms of occults, and respect the paranormals and supernaturals.